No matter what they tell you, men love it when you drive them crazy. They love it!  In "Hard To Get" you'll discover how to drive a man crazy.


Men feel very much alive when they are crazy with passion and interest for a woman who rivets their attention.


One way to get a man's attention is to do LESS, not more.

Does "hard to get" increase the intensity?  You bet it does. For example, many of us have an old flame who stays in our minds.  For example, many of us have an old flame who stays in our minds. One reason that person stays in our minds is because we don't HAVE that person. They're extremely HARD TO GET. That affects how much you THINK about them and want them. It intensifies the intensity. And falling in love is all about intensity!

"Hard To Get" is for the fearless, because the idea of "Hard to Get" is controversial. It's also a well-understood fact of simple human nature.Some people hear this phrase and automatically think it means being "manipulative" - resorting to "tricks" to "get a man."First - who says you need to "get a man"? You don't. You need to "get" yourself - and know that if a man "gets" you, then he's a lucky bloke indeed.​





​Easy equals desperate. Easy equals not waiting for what is special. Easy means not being okay with being on your own.

Some women say, "With a really great man, I shouldn't need to play games." We say, "Great men love a challenge. When they're married to you, they'll cherish you all the more because you were hard to get."Truer words were never spoken.

Sometimes, a woman knows that the way she came across - in a first meeting - with a guy she liked WAS NOT the way she really wanted - and was not the true, confident HER. Maybe out of nerves, she came across a little needy or insecure. Only the slightest fine-tuning could have made a big difference. Some women say, "I don't have the energy to work on how I come across to men." We say, "Most worthwhile things take energy and effort. The results are worth it."

Some MEN say, "I don't want a woman who plays games." We say, "Yeah, right. What men think they want and what they really want are usually two different things! It's just that some women are "hard to get" for them - naturally.

Some women say, "I just don't like the whole idea of playing hard to get." We say, "Consider the alternative. It's not a pretty picture. Not being hard to get means that you get to Emotional First Base long before he does. When he realizes that you are there before him - he will start backing away from you. This causes a lot of broken hearts."

Hard To Get means you are in control - and you're a lot more likely to get the man you want and to have a better relationship with him in the long run.



"How true - how true! When I'm being mysterious and not pouring out my emotional needs, I have total control. I hate to say it, but the more I'm mysterious, the more he wants to be with me." -- Lisa

Hard to Get is a time-honored principle for a reason - it has helped hundreds of thousands of women to learn the meaning of valuing themselves and using self-restraint and self-discipline when some of their strongest urges could have resulted in actions that would have NOT worked in their best interests in the long run.

Make no mistake about it. Love is a "game" - the most wonderful "game" ever invented. Play to win.  Play hard.... to get!


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